The Appearance
Posted on May 14, 2012 - 1
Hey there, I haven’t blogged since *checks* …February 25th…yikes. -_- I actually planned on blogging this past weekend, and I did sit down to start typing but I just wasn’t feeling it. However, now I AM feeling it, so here I am! I think I have an idea about what I am going to blog about and I actually thought of it this morning while I was cleaning my room. I don’t know how I thought of it, but it just popped into my head. I wanted to talk about girls and their confidence. And it’s not like I am sexist against boys and their confidence but I have never once seen the examples I am going to discuss in males.
Appearance. I feel a lot of girl’s confidence is made up of their appearance. Most likely because of today’s society, advertisements, etc. Everyday I encounter several posts, pictures or just girl’s saying how they are not “pretty”. For example, the girl’s on Tumblr constantly reblogging posts or pictures saying how they are “ugly” “no good” “hideous” “no one likes me” blah blah blahhhhh. I am sorry and I know there are girls who actually do have physiological issues but I am talking about the girls who do these posts just to get compliments or just to show pity for themselves. AND 99.9% OF THE TIME THE GIRL IS STUNNING! Dafuq.
Girls, can we all just shut the fuck up and stop complaining about how “ugly” we are? Can we just take a break from looking in the mirror and constantly judging ourselves? Chill out and enjoy life. Because honestly, life is way too short to be worrying about how “ugly” you are. What are you going to be remembered as? “The girl who thought she was ugly and constantly advertised it for attention or just for the hell of it”. Plus, I never think any girl is ugly but if you ever actually were ugly, showing pity for yourself isn’t going to fix it so why do it?
Alright, now that I am done with all of that, I will just update you on some stuff. My parents are officially graduated from therapy on their marriage problems, so everything is back to normal. Also, I don’t think many of you have seen this because I’ve only mentioned him a few times on Twitter but if me mentioning the name Cole rings a bell, that’s my wonderful boyfriend of a month and a half, so that’s pretty new.
Well, that is about it for now; I will hopefully blog again soon but you never really know with me. Okay bye!